Feb 6, - You're finally feeling like yourself again and putting yourself back out there, thread, based on their own stories of exes reaching back out to them out of the blue. We broke up almost three years ago and he has a girlfriend of two years. My thing is unless they fucked you over pretty badly, there is no. Oct 26, - They say that when it comes to having ex sex, tread lightly. great to have finally gotten back on the horse (man?) after a ridiculously long time.